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How to help someone with depression

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If someone you know has depression, you may find it difficult to figure out how to support them - what you find simple, may seem overwhelming to them. Below are some tips on how to support someone with depression.

How to recognise the signs of depression

If someone you know has depression, they may show some of the following signs:

Things you can do to help someone with depression

First of all, it’s important to understand they have an illness and can’t just ‘snap out of it'. If they haven’t already seen a doctor or other health professional about depression, encourage them to do so. It can help to have a diagnosis and to talk about treatment. You might need to help them make an appointment.

However, the person may not want to seek help. If so, it might help to explain why you are concerned and to offer them information, such as a book or fact sheets. If that doesn’t work, then wait and try again later.

People with mental illness may face stigma. Try to listen to them without judgement - they need your support more than your advice.

Talking to someone with depression

Here are some tips to help you when speaking to someone with a mental illness. If you’re unsure where to start, ruok.org.au provides some simple advice:

  • Be ready - are you in a good headspace, and do you have the time?
  • Be prepared - are you ready for a difficult conversation where you don’t have the answers?
  • Pick your moment - have you chosen somewhere comfortable to talk, and an appropriate time?

You can find more helpful tips at ruok.org.au.

Seeking help together

Treatment can include medication and therapy, and a mental health care plan helps with the cost. Someone with depression often feels unmotivated; below are some ways you might support them:

  • Offer to go to an appointment with them.
  • Encourage them to do regular exercise, eat healthy food and drink less alcohol, to help speed up their recovery. Do this with them, if you can.
  • Support them in taking their medication. It can take up to 6 weeks for antidepressants to work effectively. Some people want to stop taking medication when they feel better, but they should talk to their doctor or nurse first.

Worried about suicide?

Take any talk about suicide seriously. Call triple zero (000) if they are in immediate danger. A number of crisis support services and helplines can help.

Looking after yourself

The symptoms of depression also affect family and friends, so it’s important to look after yourself and to set boundaries around what you are willing to do.

Visit Carer Gateway to get tips for carers on how to keep physically and mentally healthy.

Where to get help and more information

Last reviewed: February 2016

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