Vaginismus causes the muscles around the vagina to tighten involuntarily. This can cause some pain and discomfort.
Vaginismus can occur whether you have had sex or not. Vaginismus usually occurs when the genital area is touched. This can be before sexual intercourse, before attempting to insert a tampon, or during a gynaecological examination, for example.
There are several reasons why someone may experience vaginismus. These include physical and psychological factors, like:
- medical conditions like UTIs, yeast infections (thrush), chronic pain syndromes
- rape, sexual abuse or assault in the past
- a painful examination in the past
- unpleasant sexual intercourse
- fear of getting pregnant
- fear the vagina may be too small for any penetration
Treatment of vaginismus depends on what is causing it.
Advice for vaginismus
There are a number of self care techniques that can help treat vaginismus.
Get to know your body. Have some time to yourself to explore your body and what feels good for you. Make sure you are relaxed, and start feeling yourself around the genital area.
Get used to what it feels like in and around the outer part of your vagina before trying to penetrate yourself. Once you are comfortable and relaxed with that, try inserting your finger gently inside your vagina. It may take days or weeks to get to a stage where you feel comfortable enough to do this. Once you can do this, feel around inside your vagina with your finger, pushing further in very gently.
You may want to try inserting a lubricated tampon instead. Use the same method, making sure you’re calm and relaxed before inserting anything.
If you have a sexual partner, you may want to ask them to touch your genitals gently, to try and get used to them being around your vagina. Again, this will probably take time before you feel comfortable enough to be penetrated with a finger.
When you reach a stage where you want to try sexual intercourse, take things slowly and don’t rush anything.
If these methods do not help, contact your doctor who may be able to refer you to a sexual health specialist.
If you are in pain, get advice on medicines you can take.
Not sure what to do next?
If you are still concerned about vaginismus, check your symptoms with healthdirect’s online Symptom Checker to get advice on when to seek medical attention.
The Symptom Checker guides you to the next appropriate healthcare steps, whether it’s self care, talking to a health professional, going to a hospital or calling triple zero (000).
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Last reviewed: October 2017