Maintaining them is important. It takes time and commitment. No relationship is perfect, but it is important that it brings you more happiness than stress.
Tips for a healthy relationship
1. Be clear about what you want
Assertive communication helps make your point more clearly than passive or aggressive communication. Try using ‘I’ statements instead of accusatory ‘you’ statements.
2. Say sorry when you’re wrong
This is really important as it helps heal relationship breakdowns that inevitably occur.
3. Being affectionate and showing appreciation
Relationships can become routine after a while. Make special time together and continue to show your affection. Even just snuggling on the couch after work helps show intimacy.
4. Make the relationship a priority
It can be hard to balance relationships, work, family and friends. You can help establish a work-life balance by setting limits at work and learning to say no – this will ensure you make time for your relationship.
5. Develop shared interests
Finding hobbies you both enjoy allows you to spend time together. This could be as simple as doing a night class together or taking up a new sport.
6. Work on feeling good about yourself
Feeling good about yourself allows you to give the best to your relationships. Taking time to do what you enjoy can help.
Healthy friendships maintain your happiness and self-esteem, so it is important that you stay in touch with your friends when you are in a relationship.
One of the warning signs of an unhealthy relationship is when you quit activities you used to enjoy because of your partner.
7. Find solutions that work for both of you
Conflict is a part of any relationship. It is essential that you both respect and accept your differences and similarities. Finding solutions that work for both of you will probably require compromise at different times.
8. Make plans for the future
By making plans for the future together, you both show you are in the relationship for the long term.
9. Family time
Finding time together as a family can be difficult, but there are many benefits to regularly sharing family meals. Even one family meal a week gives everyone a chance to catch up, connect and communicate with each other.
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Last reviewed: March 2018